VII. THE MARRIED SON
by Henry James
It's evidently a great thing in life to have got hold of a convenient
expression, and a sign of our inordinate habit of living by words. I
have sometimes flattered myself that I live less exclusively by them
than the people about me; paying with them, paying with them only, as
the phrase is (there I am at it, exactly, again!) rather less than my
companions, who, with the exception, perhaps, a little--sometimes!--of
poor Mother, succeed by their aid in keeping away from every truth, in
ignoring every reality, as comfortably as possible. Poor Mother, who is
worth all the rest of us put together, and is really worth two or three
of poor Father, deadly decent as I admit poor Father mainly to be,
sometimes meets me with a look, in some connection, suggesting that,
deep within, she dimly understands, and would really understand a
little better if she weren't afraid to: for, like all of us, she lives
surrounded by the black forest of the "facts of life" very much as the
people in the heart of Africa live in their dense wilderness of
nocturnal terrors, the mysteries and monstrosities that make them seal
themselves up in the huts as soon as it gets dark. She, quite exquisite
little Mother, would often understand, I believe, if she dared, if she
knew how to dare; and the vague, dumb interchange then taking place
between us, and from the silence of which we have never for an instant
deviated, represents perhaps her wonder as to whether I mayn't on some
great occasion show her how.
The difficulty is that, alas, mere intelligent useless wretch as I am,
I've never hitherto been sure of knowing how myself; for am I too not
as steeped in fears as any of them? My fears, mostly, are different,
and of different dangers--also I hate having them, whereas they love
them and hug them to their hearts; but the fact remains that, save in
this private precinct of my overflow, which contains, under a strong
little brass lock, several bad words and many good resolutions, I have
never either said or done a bold thing in my life. What I seem always
to feel, doubtless cravenly enough, under her almost pathetic appeal,
has been that it isn't yet the occasion, the really good and right one,
for breaking out; than which nothing could more resemble of course the
inveterate argument of the helpless. ANY occasion is good enough for
the helpful; since there's never any that hasn't weak sides for their
own strength to make up. However, if there COULD be conceivably a good
one, I'll be hanged if I don't seem to see it gather now, and if I
sha'n't write myself here "poor" Charles Edward in all truth by failing
to take advantage of it, (They have in fact, I should note, one
superiority of courage to my own: this habit of their so constantly
casting up my poverty at me--poverty of character, of course I mean,
for they don't, to do them justice, taunt me with having "made" so
little. They don't, I admit, take their lives in their hands when they
perform that act; the proposition itself being that I haven't the
spirit of a fished-out fly.)
My point is, at any rate, that I designate THEM as Poor only in the
abysmal confidence of these occult pages: into which I really believe
even my poor wife--for it's universal!--has never succeeded in peeping.
It will be a shock to me if I some day find she has so far
adventured--and this not on account of the curiosity felt or the
liberty taken, but on account of her having successfully disguised it.
She knows I keep an intermittent diary--I've confessed to her it's the
way in which I work things in general, my feelings and impatiences and
difficulties, off. It's the way I work off my nerves--that luxury in
which poor Charles Edward's natural narrow means--narrow so far as ever
acknowledged--don't permit him to indulge. No one for a moment suspects
I have any nerves, and least of all what they themselves do to them; no
one, that is, but poor little Mother again--who, however, again, in her
way, all timorously and tenderly, has never mentioned it: any more than
she has ever mentioned her own, which she would think quite indecent.
This is precisely one of the things that, while it passes between us as
a mute assurance, makes me feel myself more than the others verily HER
child: more even than poor little Peg at the present strained juncture.
But what I was going to say above all is that I don't care that poor
Lorraine--since that's my wife's inimitable name, which I feel every
time I write it I must apologize even to myself for!--should quite
discover the moments at which, first and last, I've worked HER off. Yet
I've made no secret of my cultivating it as a resource that helps me to
hold out; this idea of our "holding out," separately and together,
having become for us--and quite comically, as I see--the very basis of
life. What does it mean, and how and why and to what end are we
holding? I ask myself that even while I feel how much we achieve even
by just hugging each other over the general intensity of it. This is
what I have in mind as to our living to that extent by the vain phrase;
as to our really from time to time winding ourselves up by the use of
it, and winding each other. What should we do if we didn't hold out,
and of what romantic, dramatic, or simply perhaps quite prosaic,
collapse would giving in, in contradistinction, consist for us? We
haven't in the least formulated that--though it perhaps may but be one
of the thousand things we are afraid of.
At any rate we don't, I think, ever so much as ask ourselves, and much
less each other: we're so quite sufficiently sustained and inflamed by
the sense that we're just doing it, and that in the sublime effort our
union is our strength. There must be something in it, for the more
intense we make the consciousness--and haven't we brought it to as fine
a point as our frequently triumphant partnership at bridge?--the more
it positively does support us. Poor Lorraine doesn't really at all need
to understand in order to believe; she believes that, failing our
exquisite and intimate combined effort of resistance, we should be
capable together of something--well, "desperate." It's in fact in this
beautiful desperation that we spend our days, that we face the pretty
grim prospect of new ones, that we go and come and talk and pretend,
that we consort, so far as in our deep-dyed hypocrisy we do consort,
with the rest of the Family, that we have Sunday supper with the
Parents and emerge, modestly yet virtuously shining, from the ordeal;
that we put in our daily appearance at the Works--for a utility
nowadays so vague that I'm fully aware (Lorraine isn't so much) of the
deep amusement I excite there, though I also recognize how wonderfully,
how quite charitably, they manage not to break out with it: bless, for
the most part, their dear simple hearts! It is in this privately
exalted way that we bear in short the burden of our obloquy, our
failure, our resignation, our sacrifice of what we should have liked,
even if it be a matter we scarce dare to so much as name to each other;
and above all of our insufferable reputation for an abject meekness.
We're really not meek a bit--we're secretly quite ferocious; but we're
held to be ashamed of ourselves not only for our proved business
incompetence, but for our lack of first-rate artistic power as well: it
being now definitely on record that we've never yet designed a single
type of ice-pitcher--since that's the damnable form Father's production
more and more runs to; his uncanny ideal is to turn out more
ice-pitchers than any firm in the world--that has "taken" with their
awful public. We've tried again and again to strike off something
hideous enough, but it has always in these cases appeared to us quite
beautiful compared to the object finally turned out, on their improved
lines, for the unspeakable market; so that we've only been able to be
publicly rueful and depressed about it, and to plead practically, in
extenuation of all the extra trouble we saddle them with, that such
things are, alas, the worst we can do.
We so far succeed in our plea that we're held at least to sit, as I
say, in contrition, and to understand how little, when it comes to a
reckoning, we really pay our way. This actually passes, I think for the
main basis of our humility, as it's certainly the basis of what I feel
to be poor Mother's unuttered yearning. It almost broke her heart that
we SHOULD have to live in such shame--she has only got so far as that
yet. But it's a beginning; and I seem to make out that if I don't spoil
it by any wrong word, if I don't in fact break the spell by any wrong
breath, she'll probably come on further. It will glimmer upon her--some
day when she looks at me in her uncomfortable bewildered tenderness,
and I almost hypnotize her by just smiling inscrutably back--that she
isn't getting all the moral benefit she somehow ought out of my being
so pathetically wrong; and then she'll begin to wonder and wonder, all
to herself, if there mayn't be something to be said for me. She has
limped along, in her more or less dissimulated pain, on this apparently
firm ground that I'm so wrong that nothing will do for either of us but
a sweet, solemn, tactful agreement between us never to mention it. It
falls in so richly with all the other things, all the "real" things, we
never mention.
Well, it's doubtless an odd fact to be setting down even here; but I
SHALL be sorry for her on the day when her glimmer, as I have called
it, broadens--when it breaks on her that if I'm as wrong as this comes
to, why the others must be actively and absolutely right. She has never
had to take it quite THAT way--so women, even mothers, wondrously get
on; and heaven help her, as I say, when she shall. She'll be
immense--"tactfully" immense, with Father about it--she'll manage that,
for herself and for him, all right; but where the iron will enter into
her will be at the thought of her having for so long given raison, as
they say in Paris--or as poor Lorraine at least says they say--to a
couple like Maria and Tom Price. It comes over her that she has taken
it largely from THEM (and she HAS) that we're living in immorality,
Lorraine and I: ah THEN, poor dear little Mother--! Upon my word I
believe I'd go on lying low to this positive pitch of grovelling--and
Lorraine, charming, absurd creature, would back me up in it too--in
order precisely to save Mother such a revulsion. It will be really more
trouble than it will be worth to her; since it isn't as if our relation
weren't, of its kind, just as we are, about as "dear" as it can be.
I'd literally much rather help her not to see than to see; I'd much
rather help her to get on with the others (yes, even including poor
Father, the fine damp plaster of whose composition, renewed from week
to week, can't be touched anywhere without letting your finger in,
without peril of its coming to pieces) in the way easiest for her--if
not easiest TO her. She couldn't live with the others an hour--no, not
with one of them, unless with poor little Peg--save by accepting all
their premises, save by making in other words all the concessions and
having all the imagination. I ask from her nothing of this--I do the
whole thing with her, as she has to do it with them; and of this, au
fond, as Lorraine again says, she is ever so subtly aware--just as, FOR
it, she's ever so dumbly grateful. Let these notes stand at any rate
for my fond fancy of that, and write it here to my credit in letters as
big and black as the tearful alphabet of my childhood; let them do this
even if everything else registers meaner things. I'm perfectly willing
to recognize, as grovellingly as any one likes, that, as grown-up and
as married and as preoccupied and as disillusioned, or at least as
battered and seasoned (by adversity) as possible, I'm in respect to HER
as achingly filial and as feelingly dependent, all the time, as when I
used, in the far-off years, to wake up, a small blubbering idiot, from
frightening dreams, and refuse to go to sleep again, in the dark, till
I clutched her hands or her dress and felt her bend over me.
She used to protect me then from domestic derision--for she somehow
kept such passages quiet; but she can't (it's where HER ache comes in!)
protect me now from a more insidious kind. Well, now I don't care! I
feel it in Maria and Tom, constantly, who offer themselves as the
pattern of success in comparison with which poor Lorraine and I are
nowhere. I don't say they do it with malice prepense, or that they plot
against us to our ruin; the thing operates rather as an extraordinary
effect of their mere successful blatancy. They're blatant, truly, in
the superlative degree, and I call them successfully so for just this
reason, that poor Mother is to all appearance perfectly unaware of it.
Maria is the one member of all her circle that has got her really, not
only just ostensibly, into training; and it's a part of the general
irony of fate that neither she nor my terrible sister herself
recognizes the truth of this. The others, even to poor Father, think
they manage and manipulate her, and she can afford to let them think
it, ridiculously, since they don't come anywhere near it. She knows
they don't and is easy with them; playing over Father in especial with
finger-tips so lightly resting and yet so effectively tickling, that he
has never known at a given moment either where they were or, in the
least, what they were doing to him. That's enough for Mother, who keeps
by it the freedom other soul; yet whose fundamental humility comes out
in its being so hidden from her that her eldest daughter, to whom she
allows the benefit of every doubt, does damnably boss her.
This is the one case in which she's not lucid; and, to make it perfect,
Maria, whose humility is neither fundamental nor superficial, but whose
avidity is both, comfortably cherishes, as a ground of
complaint--nurses in fact, beatifically, as a wrong--the belief that
she's the one person without influence. Influence?--why she has so much
on ME that she absolutely coerces me into making here these dark and
dreadful remarks about her! Let my record establish, in this fashion,
that if I'm a clinging son I'm, in that quarter, to make up for it, a
detached brother. Deadly virtuous and deadly hard and deadly
charmless--also, more than anything, deadly sure I--how does Maria fit
on, by consanguinity, to such amiable characters, such REAL social
values, as Mother and me at all? If that question ceases to matter,
sometimes, during the week, it flares up, on the other hand, at Sunday
supper, down the street, where Tom and his wife, overwhelmingly
cheerful and facetious, contrast so favorably with poor gentle sickly
(as we doubtless appear) Lorraine and me. We can't meet them--that is I
can't meet Tom--on that ground, the furious football-field to which he
reduces conversation, making it echo as with the roar of the arena--one
little bit.
Of course, with such deep diversity of feeling, we simply loathe each
other, he and I; but the sad thing is that we get no good of it, none
of the TRUE joy of life, the joy of our passions and perceptions and
desires, by reason of our awful predetermined geniality and the strange
abysmal necessity of our having so eternally to put up with each other.
If we could intermit that vain superstition somehow, for about three
minutes, I often think the air might clear (as by the scramble of the
game of General Post, or whatever they call it) and we should all get
out of our wrong corners and find ourselves in our right, glaring from
these positions a happy and natural defiance. Then I shouldn't be thus
nominally and pretendedly (it's too ignoble!) on the same side or in
the same air as my brother-in-law; whose value is that he has thirty
"business ideas" a day, while I shall never have had the thirtieth
fraction of one in my whole life. He just hums, Tom Price, with
business ideas, whereas I just gape with the impossibility of them; he
moves in the densest we carry our heads here on August evenings, each
with its own thick nimbus of mosquitoes. I'm but too conscious of how,
on the other hand, I'm desolately outlined to all eyes, in an air as
pure and empty as that of a fine Polar sunset.
It was Lorraine, dear quaint thing, who some time ago made the remark
(on our leaving one of those weekly banquets at which we figure
positively as a pair of social skeletons) that Tom's facetae multiply,
evidently, in direct proportion to his wealth of business ideas; so
that whenever he's enormously funny we may take it that he's "on"
something tremendous. He's sprightly in proportion as he's in earnest,
and innocent in proportion as he's going to be dangerous; dangerous, I
mean, to the competitor and the victim. Indeed when I reflect that his
jokes are probably each going to cost certain people, wretched helpless
people like myself, hundreds and thousands of dollars, their abundant
flow affects me as one of the most lurid of exhibitions. I've sometimes
rather wondered that Father can stand so much of him. Father who has
after all a sharp nerve or two in him, like a razor gone astray in a
valise of thick Jager underclothing; though of course Maria, pulling
with Tom shoulder to shoulder, would like to see any one NOT stand her
husband.
The explanation has struck me as, mostly, that business genial and
cheerful and even obstreperous, without detriment to its BEING
business, has been poor Father's ideal for his own terrible kind. This
ideal is, further, that his home-life shall attest that prosperity. I
think it has even been his conception that our family tone shall by its
sweet innocence fairly register the pace at which the Works keep ahead:
so that he has the pleasure of feeling us as funny and slangy here as
people can only be who have had the best of the bargains other people
are having occasion to rue. We of course don't know--that is Mother and
Grandmamma don't, in any definite way (any more than I do, thanks to my
careful stupidity) how exceeding small some of the material is
consciously ground in the great grim, thrifty mill of industrial
success; and indeed we grow about as many cheap illusions and easy
comforts in the faintly fenced garden of our little life as could very
well be crammed into the space.
Poor Grandmamma--since I've mentioned her--appears to me always the
aged wan Flora of our paradise; the presiding divinity, seated in the
centre, under whose pious traditions, REALLY quite dim and outlived,
our fond sacrifices are offered. Queer enough the superstition that
Granny is a very solid and strenuous and rather grim person, with a
capacity for facing the world, that we, a relaxed generation, have
weakly lost. She knows as much about the world as a tin jelly-mould
knows about the dinner, and is the oddest mixture of brooding anxieties
over things that don't in the least matter and of bland failure to
suspect things that intensely do. She lives in short in a weird little
waste of words--over the moral earnestness we none of us cultivate; yet
hasn't a notion of any effective earnestness herself except on the
subject of empty bottles, which have, it would appear, noble neglected
uses. At this time of day it doesn't matter, but if there could have
been dropped into her empty bottles, at an earlier stage, something to
strengthen a little any wine of life they were likely to contain, she
wouldn't have figured so as the head and front of all our
sentimentality.
I judge it, for that matter, a proof of our flat "modernity" in this
order that the scant starch holding her together is felt to give her
among us this antique and austere consistency. I don't talk things over
with Lorraine for nothing, and she does keep for me the flashes of
perception we neither of us waste on the others. It's the "antiquity of
the age of crinoline," she said the other day a propos of a little
carte-de-visite photograph of my ancestress as a young woman of the
time of the War; looking as if she had been violently inflated from
below, but had succeeded in resisting at any cost, and with a strange
intensity of expression, from her waist up. Mother, however, I must
say, is as wonderful about her as about everything else, and arranges
herself, exactly, to appear a mere contemporary illustration (being all
the while three times the true picture) in order that her parent shall
have the importance of the Family Portrait. I don't mean of course that
she has told me so; but she cannot see that if she hasn't that
importance Granny has none other; and it's therefore as if she
pretended she had a ruff, a stomacher, a farthingale and all the
rest--grand old angles and eccentricities and fine absurdities: the
hard white face, if necessary, of one who has seen witches burned.
She hasn't any more than any one else among us a gleam of fine
absurdity: that's a product that seems unable, for the life of it, and
though so indispensable (say) for literary material, to grow here; but,
exquisitely determined she shall have Character lest she perish--while
it's assumed we still need her--Mother makes it up for her, with a turn
of the hand, out of bits left over from her own, far from economically
as her own was originally planned; scraps of spiritual silk and velvet
that no one takes notice of missing. And Granny, as in the dignity of
her legend, imposes, ridiculous old woman, on every one--Granny passes
for one of the finest old figures in the place, while Mother is never
discovered. So is history always written, and so is truth mostly
worshipped. There's indeed one thing, I'll do her the justice to say,
as to which she has a glimmer of vision--as to which she had it a
couple of years ago; I was thoroughly with her in her deprecation of
the idea that Peggy should be sent, to crown her culture, to that
horrid co-educative college from which the poor child returned the
other day so preposterously engaged to be married; and, if she had only
been a little more actively with me we might perhaps between us have
done something about it. But she has a way of deprecating with her
long, knobby, mittened hand over her mouth, and of looking at the same
time, in a mysterious manner, down into one of the angles of the
room--it reduces her protest to a feebleness: she's incapable of seeing
in it herself more than a fraction of what it has for her, and really
thinks it would be wicked and abandoned, would savor of Criticism,
which is the cardinal sin with her, to see all, or to follow any
premise to it in the right direction.
Still, there was the happy chance, at the time the question came up,
that she had retained, on the subject of promiscuous colleges, the
mistrust of the age of crinoline: as to which in fact that little old
photograph, with its balloon petticoat and its astonishingly flat,
stiff "torso," might have imaged some failure of the attempt to blow
the heresy into her. The true inwardness of the history, at the crisis,
was that our fell Maria had made up her mind that Peg should go--and
that, as I have noted, the thing our fell Maria makes up her mind to
among us is in nine cases out of ten the thing that is done. Maria
still takes, in spite of her partial removal to a wider sphere, the
most insidious interest in us, and the beauty of her affectionate
concern for the welfare of her younger sisters is the theme of every
tongue. She observed to Lorraine, in a moment of rare expansion, more
than a year ago, that she had got their two futures perfectly fixed,
and that as Peggy appeared to have "some mind," though how much she
wasn't yet sure, it should be developed, what there was of it, on the
highest modern lines: Peggy would never be thought generally, that is
physically, attractive anyway. She would see about Alice, the brat,
later on, though meantime she had her idea--the idea that Alice was
really going to have the looks and would at a given moment break out
into beauty: in which event she should be run for that, and for all it
might be worth, and she, Maria, would be ready to take the contract.
This is the kind of patronage of us that passes, I believe, among her
more particular intimates, for "so sweet" of her; it being of course
Maria all over to think herself subtle for just reversing, with a
"There--see how original I am?" any benighted conviction usually
entertained. I don't know that any one has ever thought Alice, the
brat, intellectual; but certainly no one has ever judged her even
potentially handsome, in the light of no matter which of those
staggering girl-processes that suddenly produce features, in flat
faces, and "figure," in the void of space, as a conjurer pulls rabbits
out of a sheet of paper and yards of ribbon out of nothing. Moreover,
if any one SHOULD know, Lorraine and I, with our trained sense for form
and for "values," certainly would. However, it doesn't matter; the
whole thing being but a bit of Maria's system of bluffing in order to
boss. Peggy hasn't more than the brain, in proportion to the rest of
her, of a small swelling dove on a window-sill; but she's extremely
pretty and absolutely nice, a little rounded pink-billed presence that
pecks up gratefully any grain of appreciation.
I said to Mother, I remember, at the time--I took that plunge: "I hope
to goodness you're not going to pitch that defenceless child into any
such bear garden!" and she replied that to make a bear-garden you first
had to have bears, and she didn't suppose the co-educative young men
could be so described. "Well then," said I, "would you rather I should
call them donkeys, or even monkeys? What I mean is that the poor
girl--a perfect little DECORATIVE person, who ought to have
iridescent-gray plumage and pink-shod feet to match the rest of her
--shouldn't be thrust into any general menagerie-cage, but be kept for
the dovecote and the garden, kept where we may still hear her coo.
That's what, at college, they'll make her unlearn; she'll learn to roar
and snarl with the other animals. Think of the vocal sounds with which
she may come back to us!" Mother appeared to think, but asked me, after
a moment, as a result of it, in which of the cages of the New York Art
League menagerie, and among what sort of sounds, I had found
Lorraine--who was a product of co-education if there ever had been one,
just as our marriage itself had been such a product.
I replied to this--well, what I could easily reply; but I asked, I
recollect, in the very forefront, if she were sending Peg to college to
get married. She declared it was the last thing she was in a hurry
about, and that she believed there was no danger, but her great
argument let the cat out of the bag. "Maria feels the want of it--of a
college education; she feels it would have given her more confidence";
and I shall in fact never forget the little look of strange
supplication that she gave me with these words. What it meant was: "Now
don't ask me to go into the question, for the moment, any further: it's
in the acute stage--and you know how soon Maria can BRING a question to
a head. She has settled it with your Father--in other words has settled
it FOR him: settled it in the sense that we didn't give HER, at the
right time, the advantage she ought to have had. It would have given
her confidence--from the want of which, acquired at that age, she feels
she so suffers; and your Father thinks it fine of her to urge that her
little sister shall profit by her warning. Nothing works on him, you
know, so much as to hear it hinted that we've failed of our duty to any
of you; and you can see how it must work when he can be persuaded that
Maria--!"
"Hasn't colossal cheek?"--I took the words out of her mouth. "With such
colossal cheek what NEED have you of confidence, which is such an
inferior form--?"
The long and short was of course that Peggy went; believing on her
side, poor dear, that it might for future relations give her the pull
of Maria. This represents, really, I think, the one spark of guile in
Peggy's breast: the smart of a small grievance suffered at her sister's
hands in the dim long-ago. Maria slapped her face, or ate up her
chocolates, or smeared her copy-book, or something of that sort; and
the sound of the slap still reverberates in Peg's consciousness, the
missed sweetness still haunts her palate, the smutch of the fair page
(Peg writes an immaculate little hand and Maria a wretched one--the
only thing she can't swagger about) still affronts her sight. Maria
also, to do her justice, has a vague hankering, under which she has
always been restive, to make up for the outrage; and the form the
compunction now takes is to get her away. It's one of the facts of our
situation all round, I may thus add, that every one wants to get some
one else away, and that there are indeed one or two of us upon whom, to
that end, could the conspiracy only be occult enough--which it can
never!--all the rest would effectively concentrate.
Father would like to shunt Granny--it IS monstrous his having his
mother-in-law a fixture under his roof; though, after all, I'm not sure
this patience doesn't rank for him as one of those domestic genialities
that allow his conscience a bolder and tighter business hand; a curious
service, this sort of thing, I note, rendered to the business
conscience throughout our community. Mother, at any rate, and small
blame to her, would like to "shoo" off Eliza, as Lorraine and I, in our
deepest privacy, call Aunt Elizabeth; the Tom Prices would like to
extirpate US, of course; we would give our most immediate jewel to
clear the sky of the Tom Prices; und so weiter. And I think we should
really all band together, for once in our lives, in an unnatural
alliance to get rid of Eliza. The beauty as to THIS is, moreover, that
I make out the rich if dim, dawn of that last-named possibility (which
I've been secretly invoking, all this year, for poor Mother's sake);
and as the act of mine own right hand, moreover, without other human
help. But of that anon; the IMMEDIATELY striking thing being meanwhile
again the strange stultification of the passions in us, which prevents
anything ever from coming to an admitted and avowed head.
Maria can be trusted, as I have said, to bring on the small crisis,
every time; but she's as afraid as any one else of the great one, and
she's moreover, I write it with rapture, afraid of Eliza. Eliza is the
one person in our whole community she does fear--and for reasons I
perfectly grasp; to which moreover, this extraordinary oddity attaches,
that I positively feel I don't fear Eliza in the least (and in fact
promise myself before long to show it) and yet don't at all avail by
that show of my indifference to danger to inspire my sister with the
least terror in respect to myself. It's very funny, the DEGREE of her
dread of Eliza, who affects her, evidently, as a person of lurid
"worldly" possibilities--the one innocent light in which poor Maria
wears for me what Lorraine calls a weird pathos; and perhaps, after
all, on the day I shall have justified my futile passage across this
agitated scene, and my questionable utility here below every way, by
converting our aunt's lively presence into a lively absence, it may
come over her that I AM to be recognized. I in fact dream at times,
with high intensity, that I see the Prices some day quite turn pale as
they look at each other and find themselves taking me in.
I've made up my mind at any rate that poor Mother shall within the year
be relieved in one way or another of her constant liability to her
sister-in-law's visitations. It isn't to be endured that her house
should be so little her own house as I've known Granny and Eliza,
between them, though after a different fashion, succeed in making it
appear; and yet the action to take will, I perfectly see, never by any
possibility come from poor Father. He accepts his sister's perpetual
re-arrivals, under the law of her own convenience, with a broad-backed
serenity which I find distinctly irritating (if I may use the impious
expression) and which makes me ask myself how he sees poor Mother's
"position" at all. The truth is poor Father never does "see" anything
of that sort, in the sense of conceiving it in its relations; he
doesn't know, I guess, but what the prowling Eliza HAS a position
(since this is a superstition that I observe even my acute little
Lorraine can't quite shake off). He takes refuge about it, as about
everything, truly, in the cheerful vagueness of that general
consciousness on which I have already touched: he likes to come home
from the Works every day to see how good he really is, after all--and
it's what poor Mother thus has to demonstrate for him by translating
his benevolence, translating it to himself and to others, into
"housekeeping." If he were only good to HER he mightn't be good enough;
but the more we pig together round about him the more blandly
patriarchal we make him feel.
Eliza meanwhile, at any rate, is spoiling for a dose--if ever a woman
required one; and I seem already to feel in the air the gathering
elements of the occasion that awaits me for administering it. All of
which it is a comfort somehow to maunder away on here. As I read over
what I have written the aspects of our situation multiply so in fact
that I note again how one has only to look at any human thing very
straight (that is with the minimum of intelligence) to see it shine out
in as many aspects as the hues of the prism; or place itself, in other
words, in relations that positively stop nowhere. I've often thought I
should like some day to write a novel; but what would become of me in
that case--delivered over, I mean, before my subject, to my extravagant
sense that everything is a part of something else? When you paint a
picture with a brush and pigments, that is on a single plane, it can
stop at your gilt frame; but when you paint one with a pen and words,
that is in ALL the dimensions, how are you to stop? Of course, as
Lorraine says, "Stopping, that's art; and what are we artists like, my
dear, but those drivers of trolley-cars, in New York, who, by some
divine instinct, recognize in the forest of pillars and posts the
white-striped columns at which they may pull up? Yes, we're drivers of
trolley-cars charged with electric force and prepared to go any
distance from which the consideration of a probable smash ahead doesn't
deter us."
That consideration deters me doubtless even a little here--in spite of
my seeing the track, to the next bend, so temptingly clear. I should
like to note for instance, for my own satisfaction (though no fellow,
thank God, was ever less a prey to the ignoble fear of inconsistency)
that poor Mother's impugnment of my acquisition of Lorraine didn't in
the least disconcert me. I did pick Lorraine--then a little bleating
stray lamb collared with a blue ribbon and a tinkling silver bell--out
of our New York bear-garden; but it interests me awfully to recognize
that, whereas the kind of association is one I hate for my small
Philistine sister, who probably has the makings of a nice, dull,
dressed, amiable, insignificant woman, I recognize it perfectly as
Lorraine's native element and my own; or at least don't at all mind her
having been dipped in it. It has tempered and plated us for the rest of
life, and to an effect different enough from the awful metallic wash of
our Company's admired ice-pitchers. We artists are at the best children
of despair--a certain divine despair, as Lorraine naturally says; and
what jollier place for laying it in abundantly than the Art League? As
for Peg, however, I won't hear of her having anything to do with this;
she shall despair of nothing worse than the "hang" of her skirt or the
moderation other hat--and not often, if I can help her, even of those.
That small vow I'm glad to register here: it helps somehow, at the
juncture I seem to feel rapidly approaching, to do the indispensable
thing Lorraine is always talking about--to define my position. She's
always insisting that we've never sufficiently defined it--as if I've
ever for a moment pretended we have! We've REfined it, to the last
intensity--and of course, now, shall have to do so still more; which
will leave them all even more bewildered than the boldest definition
would have done. But that's quite a different thing. The furthest we
have gone in the way of definition--unless indeed this too belongs but
to our invincible tendency to refine--is by the happy rule we've made
that Lorraine shall walk with me every morning to the Works, and I
shall find her there when I come out to walk home with me. I see, on
reading over, that this is what I meant by "our" in speaking above of
our little daily heroism in that direction. The heroism is easier, and
becomes quite sweet, I find, when she comes so far on the way with me
and when we linger outside for a little more last talk before I go in.
It's the drollest thing in the world, and really the most precious note
of the mystic influence known in the place as "the force of public
opinion"--which is in other words but the incubus of small domestic
conformity; I really believe there's nothing we do, or don't do, that
excites in the bosom of our circle a subtler sense that we're "au fond"
uncanny. And it's amusing to think that this is our sole tiny touch of
independence! That she should come forth with me at those hours, that
she should hang about with me, and that we should have last (and, when
she meets me again, first) small sweet things to say to each other, as
if we were figures in a chromo or a tableau vwant keeping our tryst at
a stile--no, this, quite inexplicably, transcends their scheme and
baffles their imagination. They can't conceive how or why Lorraine gets
out, or should wish to, at such hours; there's a feeling that she must
violate every domestic duty to do it; yes, at bottom, really, the act
wears for them, I discern, an insidious immorality, and it wouldn't
take much to bring "public opinion" down on us in some scandalized way.
The funniest thing of all, moreover, is that that effect resides
largely in our being husband and wife--it would be absent, wholly, if
we were engaged or lovers; a publicly parading gentleman friend and
lady friend. What is it we CAN have to say to each other, in that
exclusive manner, so particularly, so frequently, so flagrantly, and as
if we hadn't chances enough at home? I see it's a thing Mother might
accidentally do with Father, or Maria with Tom Price; but I can imagine
the shouts of hilarity, the resounding public comedy, with which Tom
and Maria would separate; and also how scantly poor little Mother would
permit herself with poor big Father any appearance of a grave
leave-taking. I've quite expected her--yes, literally poor little
Mother herself--to ask me, a bit anxiously, any time these six months,
what it is that at such extraordinary moments passes between us. So
much, at any rate, for the truth of this cluster of documentary
impressions, to which there may some day attach the value as of a
direct contemporary record of strange and remote things, so much I here
super-add; and verily with regret, as well, on behalf of my picture,
for two or three other touches from which I must forbear.
There has lately turned up, on our scene, one person with whom, doors
and windows closed, curtains drawn, secrecy sworn, the whole town
asleep and something amber-colored a-brewing--there has recently joined
us one person, I say, with whom we might really pass the time of day,
to whom we might, after due deliberation, tip the wink. I allude to the
Parents' new neighbor, the odd fellow Temple, who, for reasons
mysterious and which his ostensible undertaking of the native newspaper
don't at all make plausible, has elected, as they say, fondly to
sojourn among us. A journalist, a rolling stone, a man who has seen
other life, how can one not suspect him of some deeper game than he
avows--some such studious, surreptitious, "sociological" intent as
alone, it would seem, could sustain him through the practice of leaning
on his fence at eventide to converse for long periods with poor Father?
Poor Father indeed, if a real remorseless sociologist were once to get
well hold of him! Lorraine freely maintains that there's more in the
Temples than meets the eye; that they're up to something, at least that
HE is, that he kind of feels us in the air, just as we feel him, and
that he would sort of reach out to us, by the same token, if we would
in any way give the first sign. This, however, Lorraine contends, his
wife won't let him do; his wife, according to mine, is quite a
different proposition (much more REALLY hatted and gloved, she notes,
than any one here, even than the belted and trinketed Eliza) and with a
conviction of her own as to what their stay is going to amount to. On
the basis of Lorraine's similar conviction about ours it would seem
then that we ought to meet for an esoteric revel; yet somehow it
doesn't come off. Sometimes I think I'm quite wrong and that he can't
really be a child of light: we should in this case either have seen him
collapse or have discovered what inwardly sustains him. We ARE
ourselves inwardly collapsing--there's no doubt of that: in spite of
the central fires, as Lorraine says somebody in Boston used to say
somebody said, from which we're fed. From what central fires is Temple
nourished? I give it up; for, on the point, again and again, of
desperately stopping him in the street to ask him, I recoil as often in
terror. He may be only plotting to MAKE me do it--so that he may give
me away in his paper!
"Remember, he's a mere little frisking prize ass; stick to that, cling
to it, make it your answer to everything: it's all you now know and all
you need to know, and you'll be as firm on it as on a rock!" This is
what I said to poor Peg, on the subject of Harry Goward, before I
started, in the glorious impulse of the moment, five nights ago, for
New York; and, with no moment now to spare, yet wishing not to lose my
small silver clue, I just put it here for one of the white pebbles, or
whatever they were, that Hop o' my Thumb, carried off to the forest,
dropped, as he went, to know his way back. I was carried off the other
evening in a whirlwind, which has not even yet quite gone down, though
I am now at home and recovering my breath; and it will interest me
vividly, when I have more freedom of mind, to live over again these
strange, these wild successions. But a few rude notes, and only of the
first few hours of my adventure, must for the present suffice. The mot,
of the whole thing, as Lorraine calls it, was that at last, in a flash,
we recognized what we had so long been wondering about--what supreme
advantage we've been, all this latter time in particular, "holding out"
for.
Lorraine had put it once again in her happy way only a few weeks
previous; we were "saving up," she said--and not meaning at all our
poor scant dollars and cents, though we've also kept hold of some of
THEM--for an exercise of strength and a show of character that would
make us of a sudden some unmistakable sign. We should just meet it
rounding a corner as with the rush of an automobile--a chariot of fire
that would stop but long enough to take us in, when we should know it
immediately for the vehicle of our fate. That conviction had somehow
been with us, and I had really heard our hour begin to strike on Peg's
coming back to us from her co-educative adventure so preposterously
"engaged." I didn't believe in it, in such a manner of becoming so, one
little bit, and I took on myself to hate the same; though that indeed
seemed the last thing to trouble any one else. Her turning up in such a
fashion with the whole thing settled before Father or Mother or Maria
or any of us had so much as heard of the young man, much less seen the
tip of his nose, had too much in common, for my taste, with the rude
betrothals of the people, with some maid-servant's announcement to her
employer that she has exchanged vows with the butcher-boy.
I was indignant, quite artlessly indignant I fear, with the college
authorities, barbarously irresponsible, as it struck me; for when I
broke out about them to poor Mother she surprised me (though I confess
she had sometimes surprised me before), by her deep fatalism. "Oh, I
suppose they don't pretend not to take their students at the young
people's own risk: they can scarcely pretend to control their
affections!" she wonderfully said; she seemed almost shocked, moreover,
that I could impute either to Father or to herself any disposition to
control Peggy's. It was one of the few occasions of my life on which
I've suffered irritation from poor Mother; and yet I'm now not sure,
after all, that she wasn't again but at her old game (even then, for
she has certainly been so since) of protecting poor Father, by feigning
a like flaccidity, from the full appearance, not to say the full
dishonor, of his failure ever to meet a domestic responsibility. It
came over me that there would be absolutely nobody to meet this one,
and my own peculiar chance glimmered upon me therefore on the spot. I
can't retrace steps and stages; suffice it that my opportunity
developed and broadened, to my watching eyes, with each precipitated
consequence of the wretched youth's arrival.
He proved, without delay, an infant in arms; an infant, either,
according to circumstances, crowing and kicking and clamoring for
sustenance, or wailing and choking and refusing even the bottle, to the
point even, as I've just seen in New York, of imminent convulsions. The
"arms" most appropriate to his case suddenly announced themselves, in
fine, to our general consternation, as Eliza's: but it was at this
unnatural vision that my heart indeed leaped up. I was beforehand even
with Lorraine; she was still gaping while, in three bold strokes, I
sketched to her our campaign. "I take command--the others are flat on
their backs." I save little pathetic Peg, even in spite of herself;
though her just resentment is really much greater than she dares, poor
mite, recognize (amazing scruple!). By which I mean I guard her against
a possible relapse. I save poor Mother--that is I rid her of the deadly
Eliza--forever and a day! Despised, rejected, misunderstood, I
nevertheless intervene, in its hour of dire need, as the good genius of
the family; and you, dear little quaint thing, I take advantage of the
precious psychological moment to whisk YOU off to Europe. We'll take
Peg with us for a year's true culture; she wants a year's true culture
pretty badly, but she doesn't, as it turns out, want Mr. Goward a
'speck.' And I'll do it all in my own way, before they can recover
breath; they'll recover it--if we but give them time--to bless our
name; but by that moment we shall have struck for freedom!"
Well, then, my own way--it was "given me," as Lorraine says--was,
taking the night express, without a word to any one but Peg, whom it
was charming, at the supreme hour, to feel glimmeringly,
all-wonderingly, with us: my own way, I say, was to go, the next
morning, as soon as I had breakfasted, to the address Lorraine had been
able, by an immense piece of luck, to suggest to me as a possible clue
to Eliza's whereabouts. "She'll either be with her friends the
Chataways, in East Seventy-third Street--she's always swaggering about
the Chataways, who by her account are tremendous 'smarts,' as she has
told Lorraine the right term is in London, leading a life that is a
burden to them without her; or else they'll know where she is. That's
at least what I HOPE!" said my wife with infinite feminine subtlety.
The Chataways as a subject of swagger presented themselves, even to my
rustic vision, oddly; I may be mistaken about New York "values," but
the grandeur of this connection was brought home to me neither by the
high lopsided stoop of its very, very East Side setting, nor by the
appearance of a terrible massive lady who came to the door while I was
in quite unproductive parley with an unmistakably, a hopelessly
mystified menial, an outlandish young woman with a face of dark despair
and an intelligence closed to any mere indigenous appeal. I was to
learn later in the day that she's a Macedonian Christian whom the
Chataways harbor against the cruel Turk in return for domestic service;
a romantic item that Eliza named to me in rueful correction of the
absence of several indeed that are apparently prosaic enough.
The powder on the massive lady's face indeed transcended, I rather
thought, the bounds of prose, did much to refer her to the realm of
fantasy, some fairy-land forlorn; an effect the more marked as the
wrapper she appeared hastily to have caught up, and which was somehow
both voluminous and tense (flowing like a cataract in some places, yet
in others exposing, or at least denning, the ample bed of the stream)
reminded me of the big cloth spread in a room when any mess is to be
made. She apologized when I said I had come to inquire for Miss
Talbert--mentioned (with play of a wonderfully fine fat hand) that she
herself was "just being manicured in the parlor"; but was evidently
surprised at my asking about Eliza, which plunged her into the
question--it suffused her extravagant blondness with a troubled light,
struggling there like a sunrise over snow--of whether she had better,
confessing to ignorance, relieve her curiosity or, pretending to
knowledge, baffle mine. But mine of course carried the day, for mine
showed it could wait, while hers couldn't; the final superiority of
women to men being in fact, I think, that we are more PATIENTLY curious.
"Why, is she in the city?"
"If she isn't, dear madam," I replied, "she ought to be. She left
Eastridge last evening for parts unknown, and should have got here by
midnight." Oh, how glad I was to let them both in as far as I possibly
could! And clearly now I had let Mrs. Chataway, if such she was, in
very far indeed.
She stared, but then airily considered. "Oh, well--I guess she's
somewheres."
"I guess she is!" I replied.
"She hasn't got here yet--she has so many friends in the city. But she
always wants US, and when she does come--!" With which my friend, now
so far relieved and agreeably smiling, rubbed together conspicuously
the pair of plump subjects of her "cure."
"You feel then," I inquired, "that she will come?"
"Oh, I guess she'll be round this afternoon. We wouldn't forgive her--!"
"Ah, I'm afraid we MUST forgive her!" I was careful to declare. "But
I'll come back on the chance."
"Any message then?"
"Yes, please say her nephew from Eastridge--!"
"Oh, her nephew--!"
"Her nephew. She'll understand. I'll come back," I repeated. "But I've
got to find her!"
And, as in the fever of my need, I turned and sped away.
I roamed, I quite careered about, in those uptown streets, but
instinctively and confidently westward. I felt, I don't know why,
miraculously sure of some favoring chance and as if I were floating in
the current of success. I was on the way to our reward, I was
positively on the way to Paris, and New York itself, vast and
glittering and roaring, much noisier even than the Works at their
noisiest, but with its old rich thrill of the Art League days again in
the air, was already almost Paris for me--so that when I at last
fidgeted into the Park, where you get so beautifully away from the
town, it was surely the next thing to Europe, and in fact HAD to be,
since it's the very antithesis of Eastridge. I regularly revelled in
that sense that Eliza couldn't have done a better thing for us than
just not be, that morning, where it was supremely advisable she should
have been. If she had had two grains of sense she would have put in an
appearance at the Chataways' with the lark, or at least with the
manicure, who seems there almost as early stirring. Or rather, really,
she would have reported herself as soon as their train, that of the
"guilty couple," got in; no matter how late in the evening. It was at
any rate actually uplifting to realize that I had got thus, in three
minutes, the pull of her in regard to her great New York friends. My
eye, as Lorraine says, how she HAS, on all this ground of those people,
been piling it on! If Maria, who has so bowed her head, gets any such
glimpse of what her aunt has been making her bow it to--well, I think I
shall then entertain something of the human pity for Eliza, that I
found myself, while I walked about, fairly entertaining for my sister.
What were they, what ARE they, the Chataways, anyhow? I don't even yet
know, I confess; but now I don't want to--I don't care a hang, having
no further use for them whatever. But on one of the Park benches, in
the golden morning, the wonderment added, I remember, to my joy, for we
hadn't, Lorraine and I, been the least bit overwhelmed about them:
Lorraine only pretending a little, with her charming elfish art, that
she occasionally was, in order to see how far Eliza would go. Well,
that brilliant woman HAD gone pretty far for us, truly, if, after all,
they were only in the manicure line. She was a-doing of it, as Lorraine
says, my massive lady was, in the "parlor" where I don't suppose it's
usually done; and aren't there such places, precisely, AS Manicure
Parlors, where they do nothing else, or at least are supposed to? Oh, I
do hope, for the perfection of it, that this may be what Eliza has kept
from us! Otherwise, by all the gods, it's just a boarding-house: there
was exactly the smell in the hall, THE boarding-house smell, that
pervaded my old greasy haunt of the League days: that boiled atmosphere
that seems to belong at once, confusedly, to a domestic "wash" and to
inferior food--as if the former were perhaps being prepared in the
saucepan and the latter in the tubs.
There also came back to me, I recollect, that note of Mrs. Chataway's
queer look at me on my saying I was Eliza's nephew--the droll effect of
her making on her side a discovery about ME. Yes, she made it, and as
against me, of course, against all of us, at sight of me; so that if
Eliza has bragged at Eastridge about New York, she has at least bragged
in New York about Eastridge. I didn't clearly, for Mrs. Chataway, come
up to the brag--or perhaps rather didn't come down to it: since I dare
say the poor lady's consternation meant simply that my aunt has
confessed to me but as an unconsidered trifle, a gifted child at the
most; or as young and handsome and dashing at the most, and not
as--well, as what I am. Whatever I am, in any case, and however awkward
a document as nephew to a girlish aunt, I believe I really tasted of
the joy of life in its highest intensity when, at the end of twenty
minutes of the Park, I suddenly saw my absurd presentiment of a miracle
justified.
I could of course scarce believe my eyes when, at the turn of a quiet
alley, pulling up to gape, I recognized in a young man brooding on a
bench ten yards off the precious personality of Harry Goward! There he
languished alone, our feebler fugitive, handed over to me by a
mysterious fate and a well-nigh incredible hazard. There is certainly
but one place in all New York where the stricken deer may weep--or
even, for that matter, the hart ungalled play; the wonder of my
coincidence shrank a little, that is, before the fact that when young
ardor or young despair wishes to commune with immensity it can ONLY do
so either in a hall bedroom or in just this corner, practically, where
I pounced on my prey. To sit down, in short, you've GOT to sit there;
there isn't another square inch of the whole place over which you
haven't got, as everything shrieks at you, to step lively. Poor Goward,
I could see at a glance, wanted very much to sit down--looked indeed
very much as if he wanted never, NEVER again to get up.
I hovered there--I couldn't help it, a bit gloatingly--before I
pounced; and yet even when he became aware of me, as he did in a
minute, he didn't shift his position by an inch, but only took me and
my dreadful meaning, with his wan stare, as a part of the strange
burden of his fate. He didn't seem even surprised to speak of; he had
waked up--premising his brief, bewildered delirium--to the sense that
something NATURAL must happen, and even to the fond hope that something
natural WOULD; and I was simply the form in which it was happening. I
came nearer, I stood before him; and he kept up at me the oddest
stare--which was plainly but the dumb yearning that I would explain,
explain! He wanted everything told him--but every single thing; as if,
after a tremendous fall, or some wild parabola through the air, the
effect of a violent explosion under his feet, he had landed at a vast
distance from his starting-point and required to know where he was.
Well, the charming thing was that this affected me as giving the very
sharpest point to the idea that, in asking myself how I should deal
with him, I had already so vividly entertained.
